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Miss Cecilia Margaret
Mary Dearlove, the only child of Albert and Cecilia Dearlove, has lived
in East Hendred since 1910, nearly 90 years. The family moved to St Josephs
in Newbury road from Swindon, where Albert had been working as a carpenter.
They caught the train from Swindon to Steventon, where there was a station,
and then came to East Hendred on the milk cart
The Family and been
connected with the village for 5 generations. The grandfather, George,
lived at Compton and was married in St Amands chapel at Hendred House.
He lived in the Eyston arms, as did is Father, Miss Dearlove's great grandfather
who is buried in the churchyard at St Augustines, which used to cater
for Catholic funerals as well as Church of England services. After St
Mary's Roman Catholic Church was built in 1865, the Dearlove family used
to walk eight miles to East Hendred once a month Mass, as there was no
Catholic Church at Compton where they lived.
Born in 1902, Miss
Dearlove was nearly eight when they came to the village and went to St
Amands school, where she remembers the teacher Miss Rabb, vividly.
"She was a good
teacher and I liked her, though there were some who thought she was too
severe."
Mr Rabb, assisted by
her sister, taught the 36 village children in two classes. One class used
to sit and read quietly what we other stood to be taught, remembers Miss
Dearlove. Once a year there was a school outing to the top of the Downs
for a picnic and treasure hunt. All the children used to pile into a horse
drawn wagon for the trip.
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When they got to the steep
part of the hill, the boys had to get out and walk, while the girls rode
all the way up. The money for the treasure hunt was given by the priest
and Miss Dearlove recalls the excitement of once finding a penny. On Shrove
tuesday all the children from St Amands went up to Eyston house, where
they were given a hapeny and a bun, a tradition that is continued to this
day. Miss Dearlove admits to being a quiet, serious girl and did not go
out much, although she went to Church every Sunday. On Sunday afternoons
she used to read or do and needlework, sowing of embroidery. She used
to know all the families in the village - there were only about said hundred
inhabitants in those days, and a best friend was a Bella Stibbs.
When she had outgrown the village
school, Ms Dearlove went to the convent school in Abingdon and from there
went to work in Didcot at the depot, up dating the lists of armaments
and spare parts that were sent abroad to be used during the war. From
there she went on to work as a telephonist in London for four years and
then moved to Reading, where she lived and worked for 33 years. She remembers
her first wage been 14 shilling a week (70p in today's currency) - a loaf
of bread cost about 2.5p. There were only two cars in the village when
she was a child. One belonged to the Eystons and the other to the family
that lived at Downs house on the Newbury Road, which has since been burnt
down.
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In those days there was no
public transport and the village boasted two shops as well as a bakery,
so there was no need to go to Wantage to buy provisions. On Sundays, the
Baker allowed people to cook the roast, or pies in his oven and charged
one penny for the service. Meat was delivered by the butcher from Blewbury,
who use to a horse drawn van for deliveries and would only come if the
order was big enough. Most people had bicycles in those days, although
Miss Dearlove remembers walking to Wantage on occasions.
There was no mains water and
most people had wells in their garden. Miss Dearlove recalls that they
had a 35 foot well, which was operated with a handle and produced lovely
cold spring water. It was later covered over when mains water was introduced
in the village in 1936. There were few telephones in the village and the
Dearloves used to make telephone calls from Hendred House if necessary.
In 1923, when Mr Eyston was
21, a party was held in the large barn at Hendred House and all the village
was invited. The barn was used for parties on other occasions too.
When her father died, in 1926,
Miss Dearlove's mother moved to Reading to live with her, and on her death
was buried beside her husband in the family grave in St Mary's churchyard.
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